Learning how to make a guy want you can be quite easy if you follow these simple steps. You may notice that you already do some of the techniques and tactics, but using just one or two is not enough. If you really want to make him want, desire and need you, you need to get good at doing all five. Here’s how.
1. Have your own life.
Probably the most misunderstood and counterintuitive advice that I can give you is that you need to have your own life when it comes to love and dating. But what does that even mean? Having your own life means that you need to have your own interests independent of your man. These are things like hobbies, activities, and even friends that you are super-into, but that your man isn’t necessarily as interested in.
2. Love yourself first.
I definitely don’t want to get all “woo woo” or spiritual with you, but you really do have to ask yourself this: “Do I love myself?” When you think about it, how can a guy love and want you if you don’t even love and want yourself?
3. Make yourself fun to be around.
One of the key things to figure out when learning how to make a guy want you is being fun. I’m not going to lie and say that looks don’t matter; they do, but they only help to get your foot in the door. You see, once you are talking to a guy, if you are boring, he will very quickly lose interest.
4. Flirt, tease and play with him.
Being fun is good, but being flirty is even better. Much better. Flirting, teasing, and messing with a guy is a fantastic way to spike emotions and make him see you as more than just a friend.
The easiest way to flirt with your man is to think of how you might tease a little brother. You might joke that he was adopted, tease him over a way he says something, or even tell him that his favorite sports team sucks. You don’t really mean what you are saying; you’re just saying it to get a reaction.