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Hello Naijablogger, kudos on the nice work you are doing. God bless you and your home. I have a little problem - my husband is threatening to send me packing just after 8months of marriage. I'm yet to have my white wedding though we were planning it to come by next year February.
An old friend (male) called me one morning. He actually brought me my phone because I was busy in the kitchen. Hubby stood right in front of me so I panicked not knowing he heard the voice over the line. NB I have absolutely nothing with this caller.
I had to change the whole discussion not knowing hubby took the number and called. To cut the long story short, he confirmed it was a man that called and concluded I was cheating. I even had to tell him the truth thinking he will believe me me but he is still insisting I cheated and is still cheating. I feel so bad my parents all know about this and no one believes me. Please I need advice on how to save my marriage. Thanks in anticipation.
Sounds like he's bn looking for an excuse to end d marriage cos I dnt see d reason why dis(if its exactly how it happened) is a big problem to end a marriage or u've bn doing something suspicious which brought abt dis trust issues...anyway,try and reason with him and use any means to make him understand
Its two ways.
Its either you have once given him the reason to doubt you, or he's trying to push you off, looking for reasons to do so.
However, PRAY ABOUT IT, try bring up a discussion concerning the issue but if the discussing isn't yielding any positive result, don't hesitate to talk about it to people he respects so much.
Why panic just cz a male called? Have you ever given him cause to suspect you? Take time to sit and explain things to him if your hands are clean.
What kinda man just up and conclude that his wife is cheating, just because she received a call from the opposite sex? Na wa o
Even if you have cheated before.. That aint enough reason to make rash conclusions like that... It's crazy
This might sound somehow. But, maybe you, yourself need to start re-considering things
My dear your story is incomplete. What you have not said is more. Men don't just suspect their women, infact most men don't even believe their wive can cheat, hence they don't monitor or look out for the signs. If your man suspects you, it is because you have given him a reason too. This incidence you mentioned here is another of a series of prior incidences that must have heighten his suspicion of you. He can't take this decision based on just one incident. You even exposed yourself further by stating your family do not believe you. Lol. mama. Your parents not believing you cast serious aspersions on your character. Pray, Repent, get a someone your husband respects to intervene, but most importantly, live proper.
Has anyone noticed that most men of this our time are just childish and immature.pls he is just looking for loopholes from you so he can divorce you. Shine your eyes, you are a beautiful woman and deserve the best