I am so confused and didn't know where else to go with such a tough decision! I will just give you the main details and maybe you could help me out.

I have been married for almost 2 years to a perfect husband. I trust him with all my heart. He does almost everything a wife wants. We do have some difference in some areas in our marriage but other than that all is perfect. My husband and I also share 3 children together.

My husband has a good friend I will call 'Jim'.I have known Jim ever since I met my husband. About 2 years ago I started feeling an attraction towards him but never revealed it to anybody. Some time ago, we were all out together and Jim and I both had too much to drink and began to discuss this mutual attraction. After that night nothing more was ever really said.

Last weekend, we were all hanging out again and Jim and I started talking about our feelings again. Saying that maybe we should just sleep together and then maybe the whole thing would go away since we will know what it would be like, (to make matters worse, he is also married with children). We continued to joke about this throughout the night.

Yesterday he stopped by to see my husband but he wasn't here so we started talking. We discussed how if nobody knows, then nobody can get hurt. We also discussed consequences and many other things. I know it would be immoral for me to cheat on my husband, but what do I do with these feelings?

I am not a bad person, I have never been a cheater! We made plans for a 'date' today while my husband is at work. The more I have been running this through my head themore I realize how much is at stake.

Should I do it once and then maybe that will kill the curiosity? Or just tell Jim that we just can't do it? I guess I know what I SHOULD do, but honestly tell me what you would do in this situation.

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Believe me,it won't stop d feeling,once u start dat journey pple are gonna get hurt including urself,so pls stay clear of it
I will advise you not to do such things
Since your husband is maltreating you so he doesn't deserved that i mean your husband
Since you know what to do, do it the truth is sex sin is. Sweet.
Plz....i understand au u feel...but its better 2 be safe dan sorry.....it myt b a setup btw jim n ur hubby....on d oda hand...tmyt not b planned.....try as much as possible not 2 have anytin 2 do wit JIM...if u ve 2 just satisfy urself..do it wit a total stranger..travel sumwhere strange..n just do it....by the tym u return....dt NAUGHTY tin u went 2 do wud b on ur mind n ull 4get bout JIMz feelings et al
If u do, you'll keep on doing it till u get caught..!
The sin of adultery irritates God,so,don't ever in ur life try to cheat on ur husband cos,u will regret it both now and always! Pls stay away from jim,tell him that he should'nt come very close to u again,so that u will have peace in ur family and in ur life.God bless u!
Once u do even d smallest thing with him you've cheated on your husband so I suggest you kill d curiosity by ignoring it and try as much as possible to avoid him!!Remember curiousity" KILLS THE CAT"
How can u̶̲̥̅̊ b married α̍̍̊πd̶̲̥̅̊ as u̶̲̥̅̊ just said u̶̲̥̅̊ got ŊO̶̷̩̥̊͡ problem in ur marriage, so what else do u̶̲̥̅̊ want? Devil is about to lead u̶̲̥̅̊ in2 real destruction α̍̍̊πd̶̲̥̅̊ U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ wanna let him suceed abi, u̶̲̥̅̊ better get dat obsession off dat U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ head U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ married with kids for Christ sake, if its Jim u̶̲̥̅̊ want just file for divorce α̍̍̊πd̶̲̥̅̊ g̶̲̥̅☺ for him dats if he is also ready 2 giv up his on home 4 u̶̲̥̅̊, be wise don't do it ....
Hey! You better come back to ur senses before its too late.You re married and commited to your husband,thats a covenant many married couples don't knw about. You will forever regret it if you do and your life will never remain thesame. Mind you this is an advice not an insult.
Mtcheeeww,i was actually thinking it was an important issue. Put ursef in ur hubby shoes!!...abeg make una change topic.
Don't know is d precaution to don't do,other hand don't do is the precaution to don't know,now,since u've known what could bring destruction into ur life,is better u don't lay ur hands on it
Aw can ΰ be married for two yrs Α̲̅Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ got 3 kids ? Aw N̶̲̥̅α̩̩̩̩ ?



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