I am 26 years old university student from Edo state .I met this Yoruba guy 6 months ago.He is a Lagos big boy.Nice house, a couple of rides and a good job.My problem is he has never bought me a gift or given me money.Not even on Xmas day ,or my birthday.But he takes me out and lets me eat and drink till I have my fill.He can pop champagne but whenever i stylishly say I’m broke, he will pretend not to hear.

He spends large sums of money when we go clubbing but he won’t even give me cash.I used to think he liked dropping me off at home because he cared but I’m starting to think it’s because he doesn’t want to give me cab money.If I want to cook for him, he will buy all the ingredients himself and say he doesn’t want me to stress myself .Now I know it’s a lie.
However he tells me he loves me and wants to marry me.His friends call me Iyawo or wifey .My friends tell me if a man loves me, he will spend and buy gifts .They say he is just using me because we found out in the past, he has bought gifts for his exes.He even gave one money to shop in Dubai

Please Date360 readers is he just testing me.Can a man love you and be stingy?Guys is it possible to love a woman and not spend on her for 6 months?
Please help me because I don’t want to fall mugu this 2014
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Basic,what you actually want from him is money,so if you do love him and you are not after material things then stick with him,afterall you claim he said he want to marry you,so be contented.
Prioritise ur needs, make sure its reasonable n he sees it is, maybe d girls in his past were in 4 d money
Miss, sharp up! Use your brain to decipher & figure out what he's up to. No one can really advice you here, blv me.
Aunty no vex ooo. But, him be your papa? Since when has love been measured with material things? You said it yourself that he has done all the spending on his ex's and now he has decided not to do that for you. There's a saying if a snake strikes your mother when you see a rope in the dark you will jump. Can't we just all fall in love without expecting a dime from the other party? Its his money he can decided how he wants to blow it. He's not stingy or testing you. He's just being careful
Money kill u dere.. Can't u make ur own money? U follow am hustle he money? Pls getlost. Bloody ashana
Eric Odia shut up dat ur stupid mouth dere! Let ur sista go nd date a guy dat'll nt give her anythng!

Urz sincerely,
Ur school daughter
Getlost u4kin Hoe!hahahah make dat money kill u dre.Boys dey vex dis year o
Even though he didn't buy for you on christmas,you should have bought something for him to show you love him so that he'll see that you're not there for his money. if he really wants to marry you,maybe you should sit down with him and talk about this issue bothering you cos I dnt tink its right that he isn't buying you stuff and giving you a little change...
I think u need to ask urself wot u out of the relationship. His experience 4rm his previous relationship turn him into wot u are seeing now. Stop been materialist and face reality, if u love him stick 2 him cos he is only trying to shape u into wot he want u to look like nd if u do trust me I'll take u to. The altar.
Na g boy jare
All this lagos bigboy.... What job is he into?... Do u know?... Something is fishy


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